I don't like to post forward in my blog. But this particular post I can't help!!! I went through this article this morning and I definitely want to post it here.
"There is life after Break-ups "!!!!!
The hardest part of loving is let go. It is hard because love makes us want to hold on. The fear of losing it may be intolerable. But like everything else, nothing is permenant. Sometimes we need to cope up with the changing environment. Breaks ups feels like death. First comes shock and disbelief. Then there may be a stage of bargaining, when one tries to convince the other how wonderful the relationship has been and promise to change. Then there might be anger, denial, depression and finally acceptance, all leading to an emotionally intense and painful period. Break ups is the most vulnerable and painful time of life. I think of break ups as a time when "your soul explodes open". I have heard everything from let's party to let's pray. Healing is individual and intimate.
There are methods to ease our way.
Allow yourself to grieve.
Respect yourself
Self Support
Find meaning
Give yourself space
Try spirituality
Try something new
avoid something who are downers
Be kind
To fall in love is awfully simple but to fall out of love is simply awful. If you feel like crying, do so. If you want be alone, do so. Not everyone goes through the process the same way. Don't feel depressed, lonely, frustrated. Try to find meaning for your life!!!
P:S: Random post like these need not have a personal relevance!!!!!!
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