A blessing in my life

I'm blogging less frequently these days cos of a certain friend with whom am alarming all the time. A friend is someone everyone needs. He is a friend of my youth. Many people are simply met by chance but few are sent our way and they become our special friends. His cheerful laugh makes his life so grand and its even making my life easier. He is apart but his presence enhance me. I am feeling less conscious and more comfortable as I am talking for hours. 

Stories and daily goings are frequently passed. As weeks went on I could clearly see he has brought a different side of me. I learned more from him than from anybody. Its funny how life works out. I'm being taught that things change, people change, and it doesn't mean that you forget the past. It simply means that you move on and treasure all the memories. No matter what happens, life will bloom again and the strength I don't have will come from above. A new friend is a blessing always but good old friends are treasures. I hope you stay in my life as a very good friend of mine. And the dreams we dream must come our way in the next nine months :P

Boss, You are a blessing in my life. I will always be there just to encourage you, as many are there to love you :P

Emotions

I don't like to post forward in my blog. But this particular post I can't help!!! I went through this article this morning and I definitely want to post it here. 

"There is life after Break-ups "!!!!!

The hardest part of loving is let go. It is hard because love makes us want to hold on. The fear of losing it may be intolerable. But like everything else, nothing is permenant. Sometimes we need to cope up with the changing environment. Breaks ups feels like death. First comes shock and disbelief. Then there may be a stage of bargaining, when one tries to convince the other how wonderful the relationship has been and promise to change. Then there might be anger, denial, depression and finally acceptance, all leading to an emotionally intense and painful period. Break ups is the most vulnerable and painful time of life. I think of break ups as a time when "your soul explodes open". I have heard everything from let's party to let's pray. Healing is individual and intimate. 

There are methods to ease our way.

Allow yourself to grieve.

Respect yourself

Self Support

Find meaning

Give yourself space

Try spirituality

Try something new

avoid something who are downers

Be kind

To fall in love is awfully simple but to fall out of love is simply awful. If you feel like crying, do so. If you want be alone, do so. Not everyone goes through the process the same way. Don't feel depressed, lonely, frustrated. Try to find meaning for your life!!!

P:S: Random post like these need not have a personal relevance!!!!!!

Readers Understand ?????? :):)

Children's Sunday - Theni

Sunday school is the most important part in the Church. Sunday school is the premier place where we are obedient to the Scriptural command to teach the Word. Sunday School is a great place for people of all ages to sit down with others and be taught the Bible. Sunday School is also a great place for lost people to be introduced to the church, and to the Bible, and to Jesus.

After long time, I got a chance to attend a children's service in Theni. They gave many programs which was good. When I was listening them just few thoughts crossed my mind which am gonna write here.

In order to be good Sunday School pupils/classmates, follow these simple rules:

If you don’t have anything nice to say, then find something nice to say!

A good Sunday School class requires good discussion. Awkward silences are okay sometimes. But seriously, speak up! When the teacher asks for someone to read a passage of Scripture, don’t let the girls have all the fun!!! :) Hope men you understand.

Listen to your teacher!

Sunday School is a class setting with teachers and pupil after all. As good students of anyone who is teaching the Bible, we should always strive to be good listeners. And, on top of that, we are to be studious as well. When you hear biblical truth, you should always make sure that it is biblical and truth!

"Jews received the word with all eagerness" - Acts 17:11

Respect one another; Play nice;

But seriously Sunday School is one of the best places to get plugged into your church body and minister to one another. Don’t waste time with your fellow church members. Make full use of your time and your gifts. Let’s have a heart to serve one another.

“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”

“Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit; and there are varieties of service, but the same Lord; and there are varieties of activities, but the same God who empowers them all in everyone.

Sunday school is the place where I learnt so much about Christ and His love for me. The foundation I had in Sunday school is really strong and God is so good in my life. And people who are reading this, If you are a kid enjoy being in Sunday school . Don't even miss even a single Sunday. Christ loves kids so much. And if you are grown up people, make full use of your time, talents for the upcoming generation to mould them in a better way.  Take sunday school seriously and render your service for the kids.

Had a very good time in Theni in the one day retreat.

 

Parents & Children - Education

I'm aware it has been a while since I have posted on what I'm doing now. Stress of life though!! Completing the studies is bringing me down both mentally and physically. I'm constantly tired thinking about what to do next?? The more I meet people, the more I realize how much I have left to do!!! It is a strain on everything. Well, my Sil and I have been getting up early in the past week to reach Vikasa school for observing the children. Its good to be in a diverse environment. I learnt many new things. There is really a lot of changes in the education system. Today's generation are lucky enough to have such a educating campus. Kids who has the passion to learn something in school from the beginning is worth staying in Vikasa. Education is completely a business. Parents spends a lot of money on education. But you know what Parents are the first teachers who should teach their kids properly. Spending lakhs and lakhs for Pre KG and 2 lakhs for 12th is too much even though the education system is updated on technology. This is what I feel after stepping into Vikasa. 

Parents always have high ambition for their children - to do well in studies, to get a good job and be well settled in life. But often its not in the parent's power. Parents can hope but they cannot push their children to come to their expectations. The children often disappoint the parents and the parents find themselves unable to do anything and at the end many of them are heart-broken. The sensitivity of parents concern is one thing and their impotency affecting their child's change is another thing. Don't know why I'm posting this!!! But am sure It will be useful for at least a single soul. I wanted to share my experience in the school but the post is ending up somewhere !!!!      

Expectations

It feels good to have a person to boast up confidence, which I'm in desperate need for now. Sometimes you may not know why a new person is coming in your life but I feel they are coming just to leave a smile in your face. I have got one such person. A new born friend in my life. In the recent days, I feel I want to be independent for a while just independent, away from home, away from the worries, away from the regular schedules!! I want to be in a new crowd, I want to learn something new, I want to have my own routines, I want to visit many countries just to know their battles in life cos everyone in this world has their own battles to overcome. Only when you step out of your crowd you will know How life is treating each soul!!! But wherever I go, I want my friends with me. My best pals to lean on. Bible says, "Even the hairs in your head are numbered". I strongly believe God is in control and He still has a purpose in my life. Lord I believe, Help my unbelief. You are creative, you are amazing!!!       

Blah blah blah

I wish to run a suggestion box to put up a title for each post. I can write on and on in this passage. But when it comes to the title, I'm placing my cursor in the same place for an hour thinking what to title the post. Thats why I have named this post blah blah blah!!! The most awaited call I got a week before. I was happy when I heard the voice. The intensity of the scared feeling is lower than before. Often I try to be strong for those around me but often when I'm alone in the room I feel very bad :( :( I have felt great pain but also great peace and love. Thank heavens for the gospel of Jesus Christ, that provides comfort, and a knowledge that we all can be together again, I mean after death. Without that knowledge I would be lost. How grateful to have a loving Heavenly Father who knows me individually and loves me, for a Savior who took all that pain on himself so I could be comforted and saved, and the Spirit that guides and directs me. I cannot fully express just how blessed I am. Lord is the only hope and that brings me peace.